Here are some tips for safe spanking play that will keep you spanking for years to come!
- Spanking Play should be safe and consensual.
- Know your spanker and ask about their past experiences.
- Always use safewords like “Red” means “Stop”.
- When hand spanking, take off your rings, they leave marks.
- When using a paddle, direct the paddle to strike the lower half of the buttocks.
- Sharp edges or rough areas on a paddle may break the skin.
- Be careful with the force of your stroke. Paddles cause a sharper, more intense pain than a hand spanking.
- The narrower the paddle, the less noise it will make and the more likely it will be to leave marks.
- Always begin a paddling session with a hand spanking to warm up and prepare the bottom.
- When using a heavy paddle the best position for the bottom to be either prone or standing upright with hands braced against the wall and legs spread.

